The physician they are waiting to see is also waiting for the results of those lab tests so that he/she can evaluate them, determine a diagnosis, and discuss a plan with the patient. After that appointment, the patient could have multiple other appointments with a specialist, a dietitian, a physical therapist, or an ophthalmologist. All before finally making it to the pharmacy, the usual last stop of the day before heading home. After an already full 6-8-hour day of appointments, they are usually completely tired of waiting.
It’s Simple Enough
- I thought I’d get my dream job straight out of college. What’s taking so long?
- Alex advanced to manager after 3 years. I’ve been here 5 years without a promotion. What’s the deal?
- How long do I have to wait for my mate? All of my friends are married with children by now.
- I’ve been praying a long time about this rebellious child You gave me. Will I ever see signs of change?
- You’re taking an awfully long time to address this situation, Lord. Can’t You just speak a word and make this problem disappear?
- I’m tired of struggling so long in this area when it comes so naturally for her.
You Can Have It Fast or You Can Have It Right
Mindset During the Wait
Activity During the Wait
Since we have to wait anyway, we might as well change our view of the wait. I’ve learned from my great friend, Rebekah, who happens to be a fantastic planner, to never be caught without a book. Although the activities of her day are well planned out, she factors in possible delays to her schedule and comes equipped with reading material to pass the time. Any hold-up that arises doesn’t derail her plans, it gives her opportunity to enrich her mind, so she makes the best use of the delay.
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Anticipate the wait.
We tend to react to delays differently when we know they’re coming or when we’re prepared to encounter them. Be assured that, as mentioned before, development in any area of our lives isn’t automatic or instantaneous. Growth occurs in stages. The valuable lessons in spiritual childhood lay the foundation for maturity in spiritual adulthood. So, embrace the stage you are in and don’t be in a rush to move to the next one. But do keep a book, the Book, the Bible handy at all times to gain insight on how to maximize your time, energy, and efforts during this stage.
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Allow development of your character in the meantime.
Deuteronomy 8:2-3 describes why God allows roadblocks, delays, and hindrances in our journey that increase our wait times. One reason is to reveal to us who He is. Another reason is to reveal to us who we are. During the Israelites’ 40-year journey, God demonstrated His power, provision, and protection to illustrate His faithfulness to them. He confirmed over and over again that He could be trusted.
But the same time period God used to reveal Himself to them, He also used to “test” them to “know” what was really in their hearts, whether or not they’d keep His commandments. Their unwillingness to see Him as trustworthy, demonstrated by their refusal to follow His commands, resulted in an extended wait…from 2 weeks to 40 years!
Delays, setbacks, and roadblocks are revealers of hearts. They expose what we really think about God. Don’t be found complaining in your time of waiting. That only extends your wait. But instead, acknowledge that His timing is purposeful and be diligent about doing what He requires of you in this season of waiting.
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Activity with purpose.
Make the most of your time by learning how to C.O.P.E. with the wait.
- Confidence in God’s timing: In our waiting, recall to mind the truth that our times are in God’s hands (Psalm 31:15). He has you exactly where He intends you to be. So, be diligent in this season, knowing that when He’s ready to move you to the next level, nothing can prevent it.
- Obedience: We can’t control when our wait is up, when our prayer will be answered, when our promotion will come. But we have full control over what we choose to do in the meantime. Act on what He has revealed, while awaiting what is hoped for. Seek to glorify Him with your actions and benefit the lives of others. Pursue undistracted devotion to the Lord (Proverbs 16:3).
- Patience and Preparation: Don’t view waiting as just passing the time. Waiting is instead an opportunity to develop patience and an occasion to prepare for what’s coming. What would you think of a doctor allowed to rush through a 12-year program in 4 years simply because they were tired of the wait. You’d argue, “They’re not prepared to practice medicine.” The full length of time is necessary to ensure adequate training. God knows the same is true of our lives. What you learn in this season of life is essential to the next one. So prepare well.
- Endurance: Don’t give up too soon or take an unauthorized route. Endure this season by keeping your eyes set on Jesus. He alone knows the plans He has for us (Jeremiah 29:11). And He promises that those who wait on Him will not be ashamed (Psalm 25:3).
Perhaps you, like me, are in a series of waiting rooms in your life. Waiting for circumstances to improve. Hoping for a change in your current season or status in life. Anticipating a new opportunity. Expecting an answered prayer. Take steps to C.O.P.E. with the waiting. Confidently trust God’s impeccable timing. Obey His Word while waiting on His promise. Patiently focus on what He has for you to do right now in preparation for the next season. And endure to see Him keep His word despite the length of the wait.
Remember, what seems to be a delay is really God delivering you at your destination at just the right time. Trust His timing. It’s always worth the wait.